The old colloquialism, “Your word is your bond” has roots in scripture. Numbers 30:2 says, “If a man makes a vow to the LORD, or swears an oath to bind himself by some agreement, he shall not break his word; he shall do according to all that proceeds out of his mouth.” But, in a culture that no longer values honesty and integrity, it can be easy to forget that our word must be trustworthy. Consider three examples that are not often discussed.
1. Keeping our word to our children. Our children depend upon us and they must be able to trust us. But, what if Mom and Dad are constantly making promised that they never keep or constantly threatening consequences for bad behavior but never follow through? Such inconsistency can push children to the point of not feeling that they can trust and depend upon the word of their parents.
2. Keeping our word to our co-workers. The Bible has a lot to say about the influence that we can have by simply exercising the principles of New Testament Christianity in daily living (Matt. 5:13-16; 1 Pet. 2:12; etc.). We must keep in mind that nonChristians are watching us to see if our demonstration will live up to our proclamation. At work we should be known as people of integrity, honesty, and dependability (see the servant/master passages in the New Testament). But, what if our co-workers know us as the one who never does what they say they will do, falsifies productivity reports, or only gives half a day’s work for a full days pay? How will that impact our influence on them for the gospel’s sake?
3. Keeping our word financially. Many remember a time in our country when a person could walk into the bank or general store and utilize credit simply on a handshake. There were no forms to fill out, no credit reports, and no background checks. Those were days in which a creditor felt confident enough to loan money or goods to a person based upon their character. Those days are now long gone but the principle is not. The Psalmist said, “The wicked borrows and does not repay, but the righteous shows mercy and gives” (Ps. 37:21). When we borrow money for a need, then God expects us to be faithful to our word and repay what is owed.
God wants His people to be known for keeping their word in every area of life. Especially is that the case as it pertains to our vows to Him. Consider the fact that when one obeys the gospel, they promise to give themselves to the service of the Lord. But, not everyone keeps their word. What about you?