Three Things to Remember in Sorrow

Three Things to Remember in Sorrow

Our hearts have been heavy for the last week as we have absorbed the devastation of the Guadalupe River flood. It can be difficult to know what do think or do during such difficult times. My mind went to the prophet Jeremiah, who watched a city burn while men, women, and children were killed or carried away captive. Here are three things he would have us remember in a time such as this.

Remember the MERCY of God (Lam. 3:22-24). Jeremiah said, “This I recall to my mind, therefore I have hope” (Lam. 3:21). What was it that the prophet found hope in remembering? Then Lord’s mercy, compassion, and faithfulness. God’s mercy is His steadfast love. His compassion has to do with his tender care. His faithfulness refers to His consistency and reliability. Based upon these components of God’s character, Jeremiah says “The Lord is my portion.” Literally, “He is all I have!” Thought it may be difficult to see at times, the merciful kindness of God is always present.

Remember to be PATIENT (Lam. 3:25-27). “The Lord is good” which means He is benevolent. But to whom? “…Those who wait for Him, to the soul who seeks Him. It is good that one should hope and wait quietly for the salvation of the Lord.” To wait is simply to be patient, which, of course, is much easier said than done. Perhaps the most difficult thing about suffering is that we often do not know “why.” Some answers will be revealed in time, and some in eternity. Be patient.

Remember to sorrow RIGHTEOUSLY (Lam. 3:28-30). Like Asaph (Ps. 73:15), Jeremiah knew the importance holding his tongue (28), submitting to the will of God (29), and surrendering to the care of God (30). Times of extreme sorrow and suffering often come along with the temptation to be angry, to lash out, and to say things which we ought not. Even against God. Stay steady and controlled. “…In all this Job did not sin with his lips” (Job 2:10).